13 Ways to Spot a Perfectionist

 Having a personal experience dealing with a perfectionist in my life I would like to share how to spot a judgmental perfectionist, so that you know who and what you are dealing with. Society often rewards these perfection, because doesn’t society want you to always be on time, always have everything organized, always have perfect morals and never make a mistake. However there are people who have to live or work with these people day in and day who feel the constant pressure that they are being judged and start to feel unworthy of them selves. If you have felt this way around someone, you are not at fault these people only see things in black and white and never from other people’s point of view and will never change or apologize because they never see themselves as wrong or incorrect, because they are perfectionist.   Here are 13 indentifying characteristics of a Judgmental perfectionist.

1. They have such a desire for perfection that it interferes with their ability to be happy or satisfied in life.
2. Obsessed with rules, list, organizations, and orderliness
3. Have a need to control the finances  schedules and other details
4. Moody when they are not in control
5. Unrealistic ideals and standards for other people
6. Has an excessive devotion to work and productivity
7. No flexibility
8. Their way is the only way
9. Stinginess with time or money
10. Reluctant to delegate jobs, has the mind set of that if you want it done right do it your self.
11. Difficulty letting go of material possessions
12. Overly conscientious or moralistic view of the world and with strict ideas about right and wrong.
13. Difficulty expressing feelings and indentifying others feelings, they act if they are cut off from emotional feelings, and can have a cold and cheerless exterior.